Narcissistic Abuse is Domestic Abuse

October is in full gear, bringing with it pumpkins, Halloween, harvest, Thanksgiving, and warm thoughts of sweaters and mugs of hot cocoa. It also marks Domestic Violence Awareness month. Sadly,…

The Narcissist's "Confessions"

Pay attention to your new partner’s “confessions” in the beginning of the relationship. They’ll often tell you exactly what to expect…

Self-Forgiveness after Narcissistic Abuse

When you’ve been devalued and discarded by a Narcissist, it’s a lot like being told you have a deadly disease.  You’re not sure if you will survive.  In fact, part…

Are You Ready to Experience a Shift?

To my followers… I watched this movie approximately two years ago. In many ways, it was a catalyst for my own life transformation. We all have the tools we need…

Reflections on My Time as Supply

I Bargained with Life for a Penny I bargained with Life for a penny, And Life would pay no more, However I begged at evening When I counted my scanty…

Why Do Narcissists Cry at Movies?

This is a popular search term with inquiring minds Googling the phrase about 357k times.  It’s also a common search that leads people to my site.  They want to know…

Easing the Sting of “Rejection”

I get emails every day from people who are stuck in an obsessive cycle of feeling worthless, unattractive, and “no good”.  This happens because the Narcissist in their life conditioned…

10 Lies We Mistake for Love – Part One

This article is the first in a two-part series. What is real love? Poets and writers have attempted to define true love for centuries. While true love is certainly something…