Dear Kim: Is Tinder Guy a Narcissist?

Dear Kim, I’ve been seeing a guy I met on Tinder for about a year and a half.  Everything was great in the beginning, but instead of our relationship becoming…

What IS a “Narcissist”??

~ by Ven Baxter What is a narcissist?  First, here’s my own definition: Narcissist (n.) a person who deceives others in order to take, deplete, and consume their life energy…

When You Should Consider Breaking Your Promises

I’m not referring to the promises you make to your parents or your friends. And you should certainly keep the promises you’ve made to your children. However, there are times…

How Could He Just Leave Me??

 This is one of the most common questions that comes through on my stats page, as well as when working with clients.  It’s heartbreaking to hear this question asked with…

Narcissistic Abuse = Prison Camp Effect

“Don’t judge yourself by what others did to you.” ~ C. Kennedy, Omorphi Dear Kim: I’ve been struggling in the aftermath of Narcissistic abuse.  I’m still stuck in depression, low self-esteem, and…

How Can I Be Sure He’s a Narcissist?

You’ve read every online article you can find on Narcissism.  You’ve printed them out and made your own binder-Bible, complete with chapters and subtitles.  You know so much about the…

A Matter of Love…or Cake?

I hear it all the time… “My Narcissist broke up with me two months (or two years) ago, but even though he/she has a new partner, they want to stay…

Why do I Feel so Attached to my Narcissistic Ex?

This is a common question as it relates to how one perceives their attachment to the Narcissist in their life.  In the beginning, it seemed they’d finally met their soul-mate. …