Channelling the One-Sided Energy of Longing

~ by Ether The feeling of longing is an unpleasantly familiar feeling to those who have been involved in a relationship with a narcissist or similarly emotionally unavailable individual. Longing…

The Piety of Toxic Love

I was with my Ex for over eight years. I am unable to recall a single Valentine’s Day spent with him. I literally cannot summon up one miniscule facet of…

Dear Kim: Is Tinder Guy a Narcissist?

Dear Kim, I’ve been seeing a guy I met on Tinder for about a year and a half.  Everything was great in the beginning, but instead of our relationship becoming…

The Narcissists’ Playbook

by Ven Baxter One of the first steps out of Narcissistic abuse is the realization that one is, in fact, dealing with a Narcissist.  I’m going to generalize a lot…

The Matrix of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

“This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want…

7 Sneaky Things Narcissists Say to Get You Back

Narcissists rarely ever admit to it, but all of your worst fears regarding your relationship are playing out just underneath the radar of your awareness. You know that ever-present, vague…