Not All That is Buried is Dead

Time is not a healer. It’s a system for keeping track of seconds, minutes, hours, and days. Time may take the edge off of intense pain, but it doesn’t heal.  …

Planet V

Excerpt from How to Do No Contact Like a Boss! Venus is a lovely being.  She gives her love unconditionally and cares for others in the most unselfish way; she…

Breaking Up with a Narcissist

“Breaking up with a Narcissist”.  These are common search terms that lead people to Let Me Reach.  While I am glad that readers are searching for ways to end their…

Will My Narcissistic Ex Ever Feel Guilty?

A common question as it relates to a toxic relationship is whether the narcissist feels any guilt or remorse for what they’ve done to their partner (a.k.a. source of supply)….

Am I in an Abusive Relationship?

  No relationship is perfect.  Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, whether romantic or otherwise.  Even the best of lovers will have moments of misunderstanding, frustration, and confusion. …

Feel Like You Were Brainwashed by the Narcissist?

  You were.  Through manipulative psychological techniques that effectively condition your subconscious mind. Narcissists use subtle clues and suggestions to guide you towards things that are not in your best interest…

Why is No Contact So Hard?

Everyone who has been involved with a Narcissist experiences this contradiction of logic.  Severing the relationship with a disordered personality should be a no-brainer, right?  Yet it seems no matter how…

Looming Over Me: Control Games

~by Verity~ You stand, cup of coffee in hand, towering over me, refusing to sit down, too close, your face set in the familiar jaw-jutting meanness. I try to keep…